How does one succeed in life?
11.06.2025 04:40
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What defines the k'vanna of the Book of בראשית?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
That's it for today.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why am I so triggered and depressed over a minor thing?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How many trans people are lawful gun owners?
Does not procrastinate.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Ask yourself:
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Why was Nietzsche against essentialism?
What I need from you?
Hangs out with loser friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Making more friends is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.